Can you say disability?
It is okay to use words or phrases such as “disabled,” “disability,” or “people with disabilities” when talking about disability issues. Ask the people you are with which term they prefer if they have a disability. When in doubt, call a person with a disability by his/her name.
Do people date people in wheelchairs?
There is no reason why you shouldnt date someone in a wheelchair. If you have good chemistry, give it a go. Be open and upfront about any concerns regarding his/her lifestyle. Provide them the chance to explain before you write off the idea.