According to 2020 OKCupid data on 6,000 people shared with mindbodygreen, 62% of people think you should say I love you as soon as you feel it, whereas 22% think you should wait several months, and 3% think you should wait at least a year. On average, research has found men take about three months to say I

How long should you wait before saying I love you in a relationship?

The question of when to say “I love you” in a relationship is a contentious one. In the many conversations Ive had on the topic, the consensus seems to be that three months in is the sweet spot. But that feels like a lifetime to me. In all my serious relationships, the L-word was dropped closer to three weeks.

Is two months too soon to fall in love?

Two months. But it depends on the person and the state of the relationship, and knowing when youre really in love, or whether youre just in need. If you dont feel you love someone after one or two months, you may never love them. I was scared to tell a much younger person I loved them; I wasnt sure they were ready.