How can I get in the mood instantly?

6 Easy and Fun Ways to Get in the MoodBe a bookworm. Put on some comfy clothes, dim the lights and page through a hot novel on your bookshelf. Relax in a warm bath. Fill the tub with warm, bubbly water and light a few of your favorite scented candles. Watch a movie with great sex scenes—here are eight of our favorites.Jan 17, 2011

Is it normal for a girl to not be in the mood?

There is nothing wrong with your sexual frequency. Its common and normal for ones libido to fluctuate, and its perfectly OK for you to not always be in the mood.