Can my wife take everything in a divorce?

She cant take everything from you, but only her share of community property that is acquired during marriage. Your separate property wont go to her unless in some specific cases like family businesses.

What should you not do when getting a divorce?

10 Things You Absolutely Need to Avoid When Getting DivorcedBe Honest and Transparent. Dont Badmouth Your Ex-Spouse to the Kids. Try to Settle out of Court. Consider Your Divorce Like a Business Transaction. Avoid Telling the World Youre Getting Divorced. Stop Putting Money Into Joint Accounts.More items

Is there any advantage to filing for divorce first?

Perhaps these legal advantages when you file for divorce might convince you to do it first: When you decide to file for divorce first, you can choose where you want the divorce case to be adjudicated. The first to file for divorce may also be the first one who gets the chance to present his or her case in court.