Infidelity does not just happen to military families who are deployed, but sometimes the distance can lend to problems that already exist. Chaplain Terrinoni feels its the exception rather than the rule and couples such as the Terrinonis and the Victors find ways to make it work.

Do Army soldiers cheat?

In short, no. Military service members and their spouses are just like every other person out there- some are good and some are bad (thats not to say if you cheat that you are “bad” but being in the military doesnt automatically make you a cheater either- you make that choice on your own).

Does the military tolerate cheating?

For the Person Who Committed Adultery in the Military Really, dont. It goes without saying that you should not have an affair. The military has a wide range of discretion on how it will administer knowledge that you had an affair, that can hurt your career, and reputation in the military.

Can I go with my husband on deployment?

Unfortunately, the whole idea of visiting your spouse during deployment is highly unlikely. Theres a reason the military isnt sending you with them! If you were to be truly flexible enough to jump on a plane whenever your spouse says “Go,” you would still have a horribly priced plane ticket.

Do deployed soldiers get days off?

Being on active duty is similar to working a full-time job. But like most jobs, if in the States and not deployed, military active duty get weekends and holidays off like everyone else in the job force. Deployments for active duty to foreign countries or even war zones occur regularly for the active duty member.

Can you leave the military after 4 years?

You arent pot-committed after four years. Get out of the military and pursue another career, go to college (for free), and ensure you are happy in life. The military isnt for everyone, so dont try and force it. This is why it is important to get your finances in check during your first enlistment.