Texting is NOT dating. Do not assume that getting a bunch of texts from a guy means you are having a relationship. Youre not even dating. If a man is choosing to only text or primarily text, hes not showing signs of wanting to get to know you in a meaningful way.

Should I text or call her?

Text messages allow you to carefully craft your messages, but they atrophy your ability to make spontaneous conversation. Making calls isnt just good practice for talking comfortably on the phone, but strengthens your ability to make unscripted conversation in general.

How often should a guy text if hes interested?

You should look for three to five messages a day, unless you strike up a conversation, then look for more. The most important thing to look out for is whether or not it seems like youre on his mind. Remember, these are simple guidelines, and there is no hard and fast rule.

How long should you talk before meeting?

“Four to five days of chatting before you initiate the date is often the sweet spot. It gives you enough time to build that foundation of trust, but its not so long that the momentum drops off.”