Those who are emotionally unavailable also tend to fear and avoid intimacy and are sensitive to the feeling of being “clung to” or controlled by their romantic partner. Many assume that emotionally unavailable people choose to reject love or serious relationships because they want to stay single.

Do emotionally unavailable people love you?

“Someone who is emotionally unavailable has a hard time receiving love and other deep emotions from others. “Someone who is emotionally unavailable has a hard time receiving love and other deep emotions from others,” says therapist Alyson Cohen, LCSW.

Why do I fall in love with emotionally unavailable guys?

Consider that another reason you may be drawn to emotionally unavailable partners is that some part of you is also unavailable. Perhaps you consciously want commitment, but deep down you fear true intimacy, losing your sense of self in the relationship, or getting hurt.

How do you tell if he is emotionally unavailable?

Theyre evasive, make excuses, or are just inept when it comes to talking about feelings or the relationship. Some use anger, criticism, or activities to create distance. You end up feeling alone, depressed, unimportant, or rejected. Usually, women complain about emotionally unavailable men.