If you find yourself defending your partners behavior, toxicity, and in some cases abuse, you likely are dating a narcissist. Durvasula said that if you say things like it will get better or blame your partners behavior on stress, a touch childhood, or say they didnt really mean it these are all red flags.

What are the signs of a male narcissist?

Have a sense of entitlement and require constant, excessive admiration. Expect to be recognized as superior even without achievements that warrant it. Exaggerate achievements and talents. Be preoccupied with fantasies about success, power, brilliance, beauty or the perfect mate.