A good rule of thumb is to wait until after youre divorced to begin dating and then only introduce your children to a partner after youve been dating for at least six months. Dont get pregnant or impregnate someone before your divorce is final.
Would you date someone going through a divorce?
Getting divorced can be really emotionally painful and bringing someone new into the picture at this point in time might not be the best option. Most professionals advise waiting at least a year after your divorce to begin dating again. This allows your children to settle in, as well as yourself.
Should you date someone who is separated but not divorced?
As long as you are living apart, and abide by any legal agreements, dating while separated is legal. A separation is not the same as a divorce because you are legally married to your spouse, regardless of the duration of your separation period.