Perhaps one of the most overlooked ideas in the dating world is the concept of pacing. Pacing is all about moving at a similar speed to a new romantic acquaintance, not rushing too far ahead of them or lagging behind.

How do you pace when dating?

Following are a few suggestions about how to slow things down and keep your new relationship on a healthy track.Dont jump into bed on the first date. Resist spending the entire weekend together. Keep your own life. Be careful when youre needy. Take it with a grain of salt when someone else is needy.

What is a good dating pace?

As long as the couple is aligned in terms of timing and expectations, its all good. So if you and your partner are ready to get serious three or four months into your relationship, go for it. As long as youre both ready and youre both on the same page, a quicker pace might be OK for your relationship.